Wednesday, 6 May 2015

Psychologist guide to self-confidence and charisma Tips Video


 


It was a quote that was about how to use the spring to wait for the summer, all the rainy weather to wait for dry weather and whole life waiting for death ... Or something like that. I was not saved yet strung words - or rather what lay in words by. For you are just roughly arranged just like me, so you use a lot of time to wait. Very, very much time.

I think back, I've actually been waiting for many years: Waiting for the right opportunity to quit my job, waiting that I had time to work out and lose 10 kilos, waiting for the kids grew older, waiting for my husband had put a shelf up (the waiting I actually still at J) and waiting for everything else.

Common to all the waiting is that I shoot my own inaction of some other extraneous factors or people. It is in other words not my fault that I'm still stuck in a job I have long since outgrown or still think I weigh too much etc etc. It is sake of something else. I'm just waiting for them or it.

But whose fault is it, in fact, that I still have not moved me? Whose fault is it that I still sit and wait?

Min. And only minutes.

In recent years, the television program "To the distant shores" where Mikkel Beha Erichsen and his family travel the fairy tale won the one prize after the other and all seem to love it. Previously, the 'Bond Caddyshack "and before that it was guaranteed anything. Common to all programs is that they are about someone who chooses to unplug and enjoy life in all its simplicity. They are not waiting for anything - they grip their adventures, eating life in great mouthfuls of their unstressed, relaxed and happy way and it is really something that can hit all of us sitting on the sofas and wait. For which looks great though out when such live out their dreams, whether it is to sail around the world or to harvest a field by hand.

And it's fat. It's great if these kinds of programs can get ourselves to dream away. It's just not very cool if we never do nothing but dreams. If we dream just add one more thing to the list that we are sitting and waiting for someone else comes and take care of us.

I am in no way believer that we all have to say our job, divorce, sell the house or do anything radically. I am actually very basics of the view that most of us sitting in the middle of luck without really to have discovered it. Maybe because we are waiting for it and therefore did not notice that it is already here. So it is with dreams. The freedom or the casual world that we dream ourselves to when we see programs on television, is in reality no farther than to turn the TV off and instead start living our dreams; perhaps just in small steps. Finder ways to approach the dream already - without having to wait for something before you start.

It need not be extreme. You do not have to let all his life explode to follow a dream, the dream is also found in everyday life. It just requires that we stop our endless waiting, get up off the couch and get the dream happen. Right here and now.


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